Great grief does not of itself put an end to itself.
There is no pain so great as the memory of joy in present grief.
The person you consider ignorant and insignificant is the one who came from God that he might learn bliss from grief and knowledge from gloom.
And remember it's also very funny because side by side with grief lies joy.
Friendship improves happiness and abates misery by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief.
The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement who can tolerate not knowing... not healing not curing... that is a friend who cares.
Grief is a bad moon a sleeper wave. It's like having an inner combatant a saboteur who at the slightest change in the sunlight or at the first notes of a jingle for a dog food commercial will flick the memory switch bringing tears to your eyes.
Grief has limits whereas apprehension has none. For we grieve only for what we know has happened but we fear all that possibly may happen.
When a child can be brought to tears and not from fear of punishment but from repentance he needs no chastisement. When the tears begin to flow from the grief of their conduct you can be sure there is an angel nestling in their heart.
The thirst for powerful sensations takes the upper hand both over fear and over compassion for the grief of others.
No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.
Who elected Larry King America's grief counselor? We the viewing public did by driving up his ratings whenever somebody famous passes.
He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy.
Do not brood over your past mistakes and failures as this will only fill your mind with grief regret and depression. Do not repeat them in the future.
My experience with both my parents is that grief has a lot of down sad things but I was also really emotionally raw in the first year after each of them passed. Flowers smelled more intensely my relationships were hotter and I was more willing to risk. I was going for it a lot more. I was 'unsober' and I wasn't playing by my rules.
I couldn't have foreseen all the good things that have followed my mother's death. The renewed energy the surprising sweetness of grief. The tenderness I feel for strangers on walkers. The deeper love I have for my siblings and friends. The desire to play the mandolin. The gift of a visitation.
We live in grief for having left the womb for having left the teat then school then home. In my case it was leaving marriages and the death of my wife.