I always prefer to believe the best of everybody it saves so much trouble.
Beauty saves. Beauty heals. Beauty motivates. Beauty unites. Beauty returns us to our origins and here lies the ultimate act of saving of healing of overcoming dualism.
Forgiveness is the economy of the heart... forgiveness saves the expense of anger the cost of hatred the waste of spirits.
Learning to dislike children at an early age saves a lot of expense and aggravation later in life.