Those who produce should have but we know that those who produce the most - that is those who work hardest and at the most difficult and most menial tasks have the least.
I believe that you control your destiny that you can be what you want to be. You can also stop and say 'No I won't do it I won't behave his way anymore. I'm lonely and I need people around me maybe I have to change my methods of behaving ' and then you do it.