If you were going to choose a way of making your way in this world and a place to start from you might not choose poetry and you might not choose Huddersfield.
If I'm with a man is that going to prevent me from achieving my goal? What sacrifices will I have to make in terms of being myself if I'm with a man? Something that young women find out really quickly is that when you start dating all of a sudden you're supposed to have a role. You're not allowed to just be yourself.