If you're lucky as you get older you respect the craft and it becomes a skill.
Intelligence is enormously sexy.
I grew up in a household where everybody lived at the top of his lungs.
Each of us needs something - food liquor pot whatever - to help us...
Trauma happens in relationships so it can only be healed in relationships. Art can't provide healing. It can be cathartic and therapeutic but a relationship is a three-part journey.